housing can be a solution for young families who have problems finding a suitable apartment or house, or for elderly parents who can no longer take care of themselves and need help from the ”young”. Although we hear a lot of stories telling us that multi-generational living is hell, there are many – not so vocal – people who live this way without any problems.
Everyone agrees
In order not to complicate the cohabitation of several generations (even four) right from the start, it is necessary that everyone involved agrees to this solution. It is never a good thing if one or more members of the household feel manipulated or forced into something.
Tolerance
Everyone has their own likes and dislikes, which will sooner or later become apparent in a shared household. Unless it is something serious, everyone should turn a blind eye and tolerantly realise that they are certainly doing something that bothers others in the home. However, don\’t be afraid to communicate about similar aversions and address them together.
Respect for privacy
Setting aside each individual\’s own space; determining where to knock and which rooms will be used by everyone together is the key to successfully managing multigenerational living. In short, grandparents need to respect the privacy of a young family, and likewise, grandchildren shouldn\’t intrude on grandma and grandpa who want to enjoy a moment of peace.
Rules
Although setting rules and boundaries may not be pleasant, cohabitation usually can\’t do without this step. Establish who will clean where, whether each person will cook for themselves, how to take turns in the kitchen, or what temperature you will maintain in your shared living space. This will save a lot of hassle and unnecessary stress in the future.
Multi-generational living can be beneficial and in many ways rewarding (especially for young children who learn to respect their grandparents\’ needs) , but it must be approached with perspective, calm and a great deal of tolerance.
